Disappointment as an encounter with oneself
- Paola Panero
- Sep 22
- 1 min read
The greatest disappointment often comes not from what we do, but from what is not recognized. When a work is not understood, when a creative gesture is viewed with indifference or judged lightly, a silent wound opens. It is at this moment that we feel challenged, not only as artists, but also as human beings.
And yet, it is precisely in these moments that art can become a refuge and a strength.
Disappointment forces us to turn inward: to ask ourselves why we paint, for whom, and out of what inner need. If external recognition fails us, we must listen to ourselves. And sometimes it is precisely there that we find the most accurate answer: to paint not to please others, but to exist authentically.
Relationships with others can be painful, but they also reveal the need for a connection with oneself. Accepting disappointment means not letting judgment hold you back, but transforming it into a motivation to believe even more in your own inner voice.
Disappointment then becomes a stern teacher, teaching the courage to continue on the creative path, even when there is no applause outside.
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